Looking at this photo, she looks so sweet and harmless, but don't be fooled...that's just an appearance, an illusion, and the furthest thing from the truth.
In our opinion, Ilisa is a scorned manipulating social worker who seems to thrive on hurting the family unit. She feeds on controlling the family members of those entrusted under her authority as a social worker.
She searches relentlessly for a vulnerability that she can exploit and take advantage of...and then she does just that - continuously displaying control dependence tendencies.
When family questions her direction relating to their loved one, she exclaims "you have no choice". And her smirk reveals just how devious and sinister she is.
But, thanks to you Ilisa...we organized - and we demonstrated to you that we had a choice, and because of you, they (those who cannot speak for themselves) now have a voice (COAF).
When we say that she has no business caring for the mentally challenged, we're not being mean-spirited, simply honest. Consider that while at Gracedale - during the windows project, one of our members heard her tell a nurse on the eighth floor: " I know how we can make this move go smoother, just give them all a high dose of Ativan"... and she laughed wickedly. Do you remember that Ilisa? We do!
Sadly, all the residents of that floor at that time were Alzheimer's patients. Needless to say, her answer to their misfortune was ATIVAN. What many of you may not know is that under a high dose of Ativan, a patient cannot even eat...a basic fundamental necessary to sustain life.
Imagine however, the priceless look on her face when she realized who was standing by her, who she feared may have heard her...it truly was priceless.
It is our humble opinion that she lacks scruples, common sense, and most importantly compassion.
Yes...the answer is yes, it was reported but, Chief Administrator Steve McShane failed to hear our concerns. And Ross Marcuss pacified us, while John Stoffa...simply put - deceived us.
No...no one listened, and that was the extent of the problem which committed us to the Gracedale Initiative.
We know that Ilisa will eventually trip, and when she does, we will be right there to confirm who she really is. And hopefully, enough evidence is produced to put her where she belongs for abusing those that cannot care for themselves.
We concluded at one point that if any member of COAF would have done to our loved ones what Ilisa was doing, we would in all probability be incarcerated for elderly abuse...But Ilisa was the government - protected by Ross Marcus, who is directed by John Stoffa.
We wonder what the National Association of Social Workers would think about her malicious behavior. We wonder if they would be interested in details we can provide? Hmmm.